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Originally Posted by Skillet83
Just curious, so dudes and dudettes?
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i tend to be very interested in a very specific aesthetic/personality that comes with that aesthetic. i have a type. and that type is high femme androgyny. think ... marlene dietrich, tilda swinton, david bowie, katherine hepburn, ruby rose, etc. i have tried to unpack if i'm interested in just the look, or if the look is a signal vis a vis this person's outlook on life, personality etc, i dont know frankly. i just know i like these kinds of people and find them very attractive.
and whatever bits they come with ... thats cool with me. i dont identify as gay or even bisexual, i identify as not-straight. as far as what the folks who i am into identify as, i dont really care. guy, girl, or NB, not an issue for me. increasingly NBs though. im working on changing my pronouns for my live in partner to they/them, as they are preferred over she/her.
