Foreigners may not even appreciate a Turkey or Thanksgiving, nor the chance of a tip. I would just offer what you think is fair ....
and just hit yerself in the crotch wif a hammer next time .... You're a good guy AG, but this thread isn't the first time.... Might as well punish your own self and save the hassle

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But you won't stop trying .... It's what "good people" do