[Baz]

It all depends on their net worth and in particular how much is available for household spending vs. what is invested that you don't want to touch.

Plus how much is coming in each month.

If that is a comfortable amount, I see no reason why you shouldn't be compensated for your time and effort.

I say that as someone who has been doing the exact same thing now for a few years for my Mom who still lives in her home and will turn 100 in February.

I've put in my share of work to make sure she is able to still live in her home and as has been stated....it is a lot of work!

Every situation is different.

I say don't be afraid to draw an unofficial slary - as long as you are earning it - and that is the key word.

You need to do more for your folks than anyone on the planet could. That's the standard....