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Originally Posted by 3rd_gear_Ted
How about also figuring out why your "buddy" is leaving you.
OP really doesn't have anything to offer, damaged goods in total denial.
Good luck on that 2nd date
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I think women tend to need and look for more "fulfillment" in their lives than men. We guys can find contentment pretty easily, the gals not so much. And the fact that lifespans are moving into the 80's, when you're 60 you think "I've got another 25 years, do I want to spend it like this?".
And some people's life goals change. Mid life Crisis can appear at any age. These are all factors to consider.
As far as dating and meeting a new mate, slow and steady wins the race. I've always been a big proponent of finding likeminded people who share your likes and hobbies. maybe a Hiking Club, Literary, Fishing, Cooking Classes, etc.
I hate the new age term, but let things happen "organically". You'll be better off in the long run.
This isn't the end, this is the New Beginning.