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Originally Posted by GH85Carrera
He says that a 50 to 60 something man in reasonable shape, and well groomed, and nice clothes that either has a good job, or is retired, owns his home, and a decent vehicle, will be mobbed by women. All your married friends wife's that know you will want to set you up with their friends.
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^^Really? I never would have imagined this. I never expected to be divorced at this point in my life. I fully expected to live happily ever after. I won't go into the details, but this divorce isn't my idea and I can honestly say I put a lot (!) of effort into trying to make the marriage work.
But...it is what it is. I didn't choose this. My wife moves out in less than two weeks. I honestly don't know what I am going to do. We are selling the house, so I will move (into a rental) when our house is under contract. I'm staying in it until then. We have kids (1 in college, two that aren't yet) so there is that.
My plan is to focus on me (and my kids) and not worry about anything else. I have zero desire to date at this point. Maybe in 6 months or a year. My fear is what Norm wrote above - I won't even be looking for something and I will meet somebody.
We'll see. I am not interested right now. I spent the last 2+ years bending over backwards to make this work and I am emotionally worn out.