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lots of good advice here. the only that i will offer is that forming life long or longer term relationships with people requires you like them. going down any kind of men's rights, Andrew tate, jordon peterson etc pipeline will push you to blame women or like the world changing, or feminism or whatever for any lack of success (and there will be lack of success) in dating. dating means failing at dating, thats just the reality of it. and that will compound if you blame women for it, and pretty soon you'll be hating them. and you circle the drain of ever more depressive episodes, and ever more depressing blaming women, or the world or whatever for any failures you have ... you are going to have a bad time.
ive seen it happen a dozen times.
keep your head up. maintain a good relationship with your ex if you have children with her. dating will mean rejection, dont let that get you down.
always remember the twist that the jordon petersons and andrew tates of the world are selling: just because are are attractive, or that you believe you are attractive, that doesnt mean that any one is obligated to like you, be attracted to you, or date you. there is so much good life advice that ends up being corrupted because the last, unspoken sentence is "and if you do all this, you deserve a woman" the jordon petersons of the world are fantastic at this twist. and its incorrect.
no one deserves anyone else. if they arnt into you, take it in stride, and move the **** on to someone who might actually be into you.
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