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Originally Posted by Skytrooper
Guys, I am sorry to hear about the impending divorces. I have no advice. I have no experience in this matter. My parents divorced when I was young. They both pushed their agendas on us kids. It was a bitter divorce and custody hearings. I made it my personal vow to not get divorced. Obviously that is a fools errand as the other half has to "buy into" that ideology also. So far, so good.
If things did go south....my dog is all I need fir companionship. Being in my 60's, I just do not have the will to go through all the work.
I hope everything goes well for you and I wish you luck.
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Matt, I had a similar situation. The financial side was rough enough but the betrayal was one of the worst things I ever experienced.
That said, I wish you two guys going through this the best. You will grieve your past live, and that, IMHO, is natural and perfect. As for me, like many have stated, I don't see marriage in my future. I have female friends and truly enjoy their company, but for the most part I am a hardcore bachelor.
One thing that is true, was for about two years my motto was the only creature I would date was a golden retriever. I ended up with a Lab and have never looked back.