[Zeke]

Yes, as always, as Joe Bob would say, some real douche nozzle comments. I think of the good ones Vinny has top advice. Let it flow.

But in doing so, you have to get out. Get out to enjoy yourself. If you really like working in the shop all day and sitting on the couch at night, nothing will happen. You end up looking. Wrong.

I'm not religious but I'd start going to church. Or something similar, it can be totally secular. But it has to be coed, not the hunting and fishing club unless you WANT to go to the H & F club.

If there is a bar, and you drink, the one at the golf course is better than the lounge. Why? Because it's secondary to a primary purpose, to play golf or bowl.

I'm too old to think about it even if I was single. But 10 years ago if I was put into this situation I would have taken a job as a lunch time waiter in a restaurant. Or bagged groceries. It doesn't happen until it happens out of nowhere with no prompting.

Thanks, Vinny.

BTW, I met my 2nd wife now of 41 years in my late 30's working on her house. She found me through a referral. Neither of us were looking.