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My former wife & her husband stayed here for three days last week. She was here visiting old friends from fourty years ago. We remained in touch and communicated over the years, expecially after a (sort of) cooling off period. She's married to a really nice guy for the past thirty some years who I like a lot. She's lucky to have him. I hadn't seen him since the late 80s. We were marreied for ten years and grew apart professionally, socially, and other ways that weakened the emotional connection. I hadn't spent time with/around her (them) for many years and am glad I'm not still entangled with her but still wish her well. In my situation back then, I felt a huge relief and weight off my shoulders after we parted ways. We'd had a lot of good times, but it was time to go a different way, and I looked forward to it. It's a big change in life and style (& maybe finances), but that doesn' mean there isn't a life to look forward to. You have lots more life experience in all aspects. Just make sure you employ it to the best in a positive way.
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Marv Evans
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