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Originally Posted by M.D. Holloway
Often in the case of strippers and hookers they were raped and or molested as a kid and often repeatedly. One would think that the idea of sex would be abhorrent but actually they feel that sex is no big deal and actually can have sex very often but without much care. Its actually a coping mechanism. As if to say "I'm not gonna think this matters because if I do I'm gonna get really bummed out over the fact that my uncle used to rape me...so its no big deal..."
That is the attitude. Not saying teach was a vic when she was young, just say'n why sex can be really meaningless to some folks.
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I think there are two ways that this can impact people, one is to have a hard time with physical intimacy as many might expect, but the other way is for them to end up promiscuous. Sex is either power or maybe a way to feel loved or desired.