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Originally Posted by oldE
Teddy was doing his best to get everything in order. I remember Dad, before his 93rd birthday saying he was ready to go. It was jarring to me at the time, but as we get older we understand.
I suspect Teddy's passing was quick and being there earlier would have made no difference. It was time.
You did and are doing what you could for your friend. I just hope the son isn't a PITA to deal with. If so, just step back. You were closer to Teddy than he.
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Les
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Thanks, his son never responded or even opened the messages I sent him and when I went to Teddy's Facebook page to find a group picture, I found out that I was removed from his friend's list.
I was on there yesterday, when I was giving the sheriff's deputies information on him, but today
So it is pretty clear that this chapter of my life is over and no, I never considered trying to go after anything. But it is clear that Teddy told him that he was leaving me everything and he is going to hold that against me.
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Isn't it interesting how a person is transported from having a name to "the body?" I'm not criticizing in any way, just an observation. It happened when my neighbor died. She was "Becky" to us for as long as we knew her. She died in her sleep two years ago and while we waited outside her bedroom for the coroner I noticed that in our conversations she changed from "Becky" to "the body."
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I guess because the soul is the identity and when the spark of life is gone, and just an empty shell, which is how I feel right now as I may be going through this again at the end of the week when someone else close to me is taken off the ventilator.
My birthday curse is worse than ever.