[john70t]

Two facilities failed the task of both diagnosis and medication and communication. That's bad.
We were lucky to have a place even better than home for pops.
He was mostly non-combative, thankfully.

Give her something like a stuffed animal(safe to throw) or happy painting so she knows it's from you.
Even if that is not expressed..
That will go with her to the next place. Continuance.

A change in living arraignment and routine and daily staff is a huge change and very hard on care patients.
They will protest in many ways we don't recognize. It's their last grasp on independence and dignity.
But there is always something there.

Ask many people and research the new place. As for a tour. Costs. Visiting hours. Activities.
Talk to the manager. etc.

It's a difficult time. Take care of yourself as well and start making arraignments with family for consensus.