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there are very few true liars in the world. most lies you encounter every day are actually disagreements of opinions that are never actually sorted out. ie, its easier to just be like, "this person is liar" instead of "this person and i have core values that disagree, so when this person says such and such 'works' he probably thinks it does, i know it doesn't, because we define 'works' very differently"
but then there are true liars, the grifters. and the problem here is that lies build. its starts with something small, and pretty soon, at least even by my age, there entire life is a lie. it started with a few grades in high school, and ballooned into an entire fictional career, fitting with fictional wife, fictional nice cars, etc ...
and even these lies are not straight up fictions. ie, he is married. hes just married to a woman who hates him. and he has the nice and house and cars, its just that he is broke with debt.
lies build. thats the best motivation in the world to not lie.
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