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like the liar thread, there are few few actual annoying people. annoyance most often shows up impersonally by someone's needs not being met by the social interaction. once you kind of understand people and what they need, its pretty easy to avoid the annoyance with them. most often, they need to feel validated or a part of the team. and they are grasping at possible ways to be validated towards those ends.
there is very often friction between the neurotypical, and the neuro-atypical that can be characterized as annoying, but again, its a difference in needs not being met. dating a lot of manic pixie dream girls, or women with undiagnosed ADHD scientifically speaking, as a more or less neurotypical myself, it comes up a lot.
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