I don't do a lot of stuff these daze that I did for decades ... I just don't want too. Drinking (lots of beer ... occasional shots of good tequila) on weekends and when seeing live music (literally several thousand shows) for decades with friends.... rarely at home ... never alone. WAY beyond excess ... it's what we did ...

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I've had mebbe 5-6 beers in the past 5 years ... back then ... I was just starting for the evening....
Learned the "hard way" not to drive .... exactly 30 years ago... to the minute.... I was asleep in my Supra at 6am on the side of road ... after a local band's annual Halloween show ... only time I EVER pulled over too.
"WE" were irresponsible idjuts ... growing up in the excesses of the 70-80s .... times change.... so did I.
It can be done