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Originally Posted by Baz
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I never married, never will, I stay away from women's cause I know I fall for the crazy ones. My mother is a crazy woman, I'm sure that has something to do with it..
Put 10 good looking ones in a row.. I will be drawn to the one that has lots of issues under the surface.. recent divorcee, bipolar, military grade debt, basically I can spot a camouflaged stripper from a mile away.
In my twenties I thought I was lonely and that I needed to get in a relation.. but it was nothing but trouble.. Till i decided No mas. Not worth getting into trouble over.
I'm 47 now, I'm not even looking, hell if one comes knocking on my door. I'll pretend not to be home.
The idea that I wake up and there is somebody in my house, other than my catrs, just creeps me out now..
So at this point , I call it freedom, not loneliness.
Started looking for a house, 3 days later had signed and bought the place
Decide I want A Porsche, just bought it, decide I want a bmw , 2 days later I have it.
I can decide things really fast as I am unanimous in that
For me, I have to be busy at work and I look at volunteering to have purpose.
Vacation can't last to long else I run out of stuff to do, I get bored, and get way to inactive. Especially in winter No ball and chain to give me chores or get me off my butt.
Summer less of a problem..
I have cats.. But a dog would work as well, I just prefer cats cause they aren't as needy for walks and they don't absolutely need a regular pattern.. I don't think I will ever fully retire.. it wouldn't do me much good and I would become inactive and that would be the end of it.