[ZAMIRZ]

Zeke, I don't know what to make of your replies. From the first one you seem like a NARC or cop who's out to get me in trouble and from the last one it seems like you're an old man. I understand you wanting to make the law clear to me, but I'd like to inform you that I know statutory rape laws, because my friend got caught having sex wit his girlfriend who was a minor when he was 19 and he spent an over-nighter in jail and had to drop 10 grand in lawyer/bondsman fees......didn't serve any time though. Furthermore, I'm surprised you'd think I'd post something like this on a public message board where everything is recorded and backed up if it could cause me any legal problems. Let me make it clear once again, she is 18 years of age, the age of consent in the state of CA.

For the record, I had sex before I was 18 and it wasn't a "hey, lets go to a movie and ****". I don't see what the problem is as long as both parties are within at the very most two years of each other. That's not to say a 16 year old should be having sex with a 14 year old, but I don't see a problem with a 16 and 18 or 16 and 17 year old. It is very possible to still be a gentleman, I still open doors for women and always let them go through first.

Zeke, I'm going to tell you right now, I'm 19 years old and your grand-daughter is and will do whatever she wants, including experimenting with drugs and sex regardless of what you or her parents say about it. Her upbringing will determine whether she just chalks it up to an experimentation or takes it further. There is no substitute for good parenting and that is the most important part of the equation when it comes to dealing with adolescents going through puberty. All the kids in my school who had f'ed up parents that could give a crap about who they were hanging out with and not setting a reasonable curfew are the ones going on their 4th year in junior college smoking out after class. My friends and I all experimented with certain drugs and hooking up with chicks and we all have steady jobs that pay decently and are finishing up our general ed. in order to transfer to 4-year universities. Unfortunately I had friends that fell into the dark hole of buying cocaine at 4 in the morning and girls who'd spread their legs for the same, it was sad to see them in this state, but I wasn't going to end up like that so I distanced myself from them and that was that.