[Dantilla]

My wife is very nervous about motorcycles.
She is completely comfortable with me flying airplanes, racing cars, mountain biking, about anything else I like to do, but motorcycles scare her.

Because of that, I will have fun flying airplanes, racing cars, etc, but will stay off bikes for her peace of mind.
She is more important to me than any of the fun toys I've enjoyed.

The joke- If she dies, what will I do first? Buy a motorcycle, or call her parents?

If this new guy truly respects you, he will accommodate your fear, and enjoy time with you.
If he gets pushy, it may not be a red flag, but maybe a yellow, that he can be selfish, and wants to mold you into his ideal.

I hope he respects you, and treats you like a queen.