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Originally Posted by Superman
Glad you posted, Cloggie. Perhaps this is a thread for getting stuff off our chests. Perhaps, as Dixie suggests, something that gets us closer to closure. Leaving out the excruciating details but just saying "I have pain here---->________ and I'm letting that go."
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Yes, Dixie is right.
Disposing of artifacts from unhappy times sort of going from having a scab over a grievous wound to having scar tissue.
With the scab, you pick at it, the bleeding starts again and the wound is reopened with all its suffering,
Let it turn to scar tissue, it's still there, a mark of a lived life, but it no longer hurts, no temptation to reopen it.
It's now just a part of who you are.
You know, it's funny, you read over stuff in PARF, some persons being vehemently angry and engaged in the debate.
..and you just know, if we could meet face to face, over a drink or ten, we'd probably stagger out at the end of the night, swearing fealty and friendship until the ends of our lives.
D.