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Originally Posted by PorscheGAL
I am a little shocked and quite frankly, disappointed with you guys. Some of the comments: "I would not let her" "she's not old enough to make life and death decisions".
1. She could join the military at this age and make life and death decisions
2. She could go buy a firearm on her own; she is old enough. Luckily, she is asking for your help.
Now to my advice as a woman and a mom:
I did not grow up with firearms. I married very young to a military officer. He started taking me to the range early in our dating because a firearm was kept in the house. I think taking her to the range and signing her up for safety classes should come first before the discussion purchasing a firearm. She should be comfortable with all aspects of gun ownership including the safe maintenance, target shooting and responsible handling.
As for the SSRI: that may be a concern. I believe she should be included in any discussions as to how that might effect things. You will need an open line of communications.
As the parent of a young adult: your job at this point is not to say nor make decisions for her. Your job is to guide her to become more a responsible, happy adult.
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Your anger seems to misplaced at the peanut gallery instead of the OP and the family that raised her ignorant and sheltered. Blame
US for reinforcing the father's assessment of the child. Problem? She's over 18 and can go out and buy a long gun and doesn't need anyone's permission except the government's nod. The real elephant in the room? Controlling family that's ignorant to societal issues. Getting one's apartment door kicked in while not home would be an immediate termination of lease.. A firearm ain't going to do spit as it's haphazardly thrown into the mix
now.
SSRI's on a developing brain is stupid.
I can recommend a better university in the middle nowhere that is VERY safe....