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Do your best to not let it bother you, but it's understandable why it would. It's her wedding, and she feels an attachment to both of you, I'm sure. Also, if she picks just one, one of the major influences in her life will likely have their feelings hurt. She's trying to save the feelings of her 2 fathers on a day when she should only be concerned with herself.

I'm the step father, but I was the primary guy in the picture from the time our daughter was 8. The other guy got week or two visits most years until they got older and then things slowed down. In our case, to save everyone's feelings, our daughter wasn't walked down the aisle by either of us to try to not offend any one.