[cockerpunk]

once a week.

we run what we call "family dinner" where basically everyone comes over, and we all have some food, and chat all night. sometimes its 5 people, sometimes its 25 people. standing invites, come or dont come depending on your schedule etc. bring a friend, if you are cool, they are probably cool. kids, parents, we dont care.

we usually just make spaghetti because its cheap, easy, and can be optioned for any dietary needs.

people bring whatever else, bread, deserts etc so there is always way too much food.

its great. i love it. i usually "cook" which mostly means boil some water. there are also the dishes afterwards, but thats like 15 minutes of work, nothing major. edit: no expectation of payback or reciprocity. this is just what we do as people.