This scene reminds me of my "well-meaning" family members - none of whom lived here where Mom did.....and I did - none of whom gave a crap about what my Mom wanted. Or really what was in HER best interest.
All they were thinking about was THEMSELVES and trying to ease some of the guilt from not being as good to her as she had been to them....her WHOLE life!
I try not to hold onto too much animosity.....but my God I will never forget how clueless these people were. About as useless as tits on a bull......