[rockfan4]

I went to my brother-in-law's place for Easter.
This year he invited his brother and his brother's wife, they haven't been to a holiday gathering in recent history.

My other brother-in-law walks in in his fine Canadian tuxedo, shakes his brother's right hand, shake's his nephew's right hand, and offers me his left hand.

I'm not a boy scout, I doubt he ever was, so from the info on the internet, that says he doesn't think much of me. Is there something I'm missing?

Family info - my wife was an 'oops', she's 11 years younger than her youngest brother, 15 years younger than this brother. Five boys, these are boys 4 and 5, and then the girl, and her parents got divorced a few years after most of the boys had left the house, and she was still fairly young. I've only met this brother a handful of times, even though the wife and I have been together almost 14 years. I'm her second husband.