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Join Date: Jun 2007
Location: Lake Oswego, OR
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I have absolutely not read every comment on this as there are 21 pages and my attention span just can't do it. But I do have a thought / advice.
Desperation / micro desperation is a horrible toxic thing and you need to work to stay away from any sort of it. Other people have mentioned just being yourself and similar. You need to chill out and play slightly aloof while signaling your interest. It is a VERY fine line.
When I was working full time, I addressed sales desperation by having a huge funnel of prospects. This meant that if someone didn't work out I had volumes of work and it wasn't a loss. Result: not desperate.
I don't really know how to play this out in dating. But it is important to be aware so you don't fall into the trap.
GOOD LUCK! Dixie, you come across as intelligent, emotionally mature, and interesting just on PPOT. I suspect you are even better in person.
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