https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Cv3X1uoRulk
the only thing i would add ... is that most men are not genetically not selected for a mate ... they are choosing to not be selected for a mate. the "top 10%" of men are not the top 10% men think they are. the top 10% of men are emotionally competent, empathetic, have a personality, good sense of humor etc etc. those are the men being selected. not these failures complaining about feminism.