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I need some REAL dating advice...
Thoughts on whether to "swipe left" on women that a) have lots of cats and/or b) have horse(s)?
I've generally thought of both of these to be red flags, or perhaps not congruent with my lifestyle. But I'm open to perspectives from those that have BTDT.
As for me, I'm allergic to cats. I get that some cats can be really cute and personable, but I view that as the exception. Also, one cat is a pet - - multiple cats seems like a pathology. I'm not anti-pet - - I like dogs, but also don't feel a compelling need to have a pet right now. I've got plenty of other hobbies and things to do.
With respect to horses, I have almost zero experience, but I've heard anecdotes that make a Porsche hobby look cheap (with an "asset" that loses value and dies). I have zero interest in being a horse sugar daddy, but perhaps I'm thinking about this wrong: maybe a grown woman with a horse comes from money or makes good money? Maybe she's a sugar momma that likes to ride [things]? Or maybe just a broke horse girl....
Learn me.
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