[Cajundaddy]

Back away from the toxic online dating sites and go out and meet people. Join a volleyball league, hiking meetup, cooking class, music class, pickleball league, bicycle club, ski club, and on and on. It's actually better if you are not real good at the activity and could use some friendly assistance. Choose an activity where you can get to know gals on a very casual level with no commitment or expectations. If someone catches your eye, ask them to join you for coffee.

This way you get to know them personally without any AI touchups or... cats.