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Originally Posted by brainz01
I'm gonna need you to translate that into city-boy lingo. Is that good or bad?
What's the archetype of female polo players. Apparently there's not a ton of them, and she also plays co-ed (often as the only woman). This strikes me as a potential red flag.
On the other hand, I'm attracted to feminine women with tomboy hobbies. We also talked motorcycles and she said motocross was interesting to her (as a rider), although I don't think she's got that experience. As a 50+yo, I think my MX days are past, but I appreciate the sense of adventure.
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So, if she's doing polo she's not crazy and not a dabbler. She's serious. She also has some money somewhere. IDK if that's good or bad, it can be either depending on the dynamic. The coe-ed thing isn't a red flag, she's good. Like really good.
But horses are a major ass time suck. Now that I'm retired I'm cool with that, I even participate fully. But if you have a demanding career and she either doesn't or does and still finds time for the horse thing, then you'll need some time to aclimate.
But honestly, I'd rather find someone with a passion in life than someone without who's searching. That's just me, if you don't need independence right now it could be a red flag. But people that are passionate and athletic and talented are special.