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Originally Posted by Dixie
I think a better approach is to simply go do things you want. You'll do something you enjoy, probably meet women doing it, and importantly, they'll be able to gain an interest in you.
Think about it, there's about three times as many men as women on any given online dating site. Why is that? Because the women men want are getting asked out at Lowe's, the grocery store, church, as well as bars and restaurants. Online dating for women is terrible. It consumes lots of time to wade though countless pics of nondiscript guys, with little to no bio, that all think "hey" is a clever opening line. And a lot of the women online aren't really interested in dating. The validation is free and easy, while meeting some guy you know nothing about is scary.
Remember guys, women fall in love with our ears. A guy that talks and flirts with me gets better looking with every passing moment. Your photo holding a fish does nothing.
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Best line of the year!
"And a lot of the women online aren't really interested in dating."
Interesting. Window shopping?
Not in the dating game whatsoever but I have to agree in general that if one is to meet someone it is likely going to happened in the normal course of events, not sitting at a computer screen. One thing I've noticed for years is that a lot of women will smile briefly with eye contact. IDK why, but it seems many do. All it would take is a reply, "Nice smile." You'll know in a second if they are interested or just being polite. I think most are being polite. Also, they may not even realize that they do this.
Beats a frown.