[Cajundaddy]

Just ask them what they prefer and go with that. Mine are gone now but preferred to be called George and Gerry (Not Col. Severin and Gretchen). I had brain fade one night and used Gretchen because that is her given name. The stink eye I received seared a hole in my face!

They were a career military family, USMC. They drank too much so we needed an agreed exit word when it was time to get down range. At first they thought I was a silver spoon kid but softened over time and I take better care of their daughter than they took care of each other.