[mikester]

I don't think kids should be having sex. At the same time, I think it's safe to say that you're not equipted to handle the situation until it's happened at least once.

The way religion and a lot of parents treat the subject is pretty wrong and I think it's the majority of the problem. Parents can't talk to their kids about it - so their kids learn about it from the other kids who are already doing it. The situations of those kids who are already doing it are less than ideal in most cases.

Do you want your kids to learn about sex from the "tramp" of the school?

I think that having a healthy sexual relationship is extremely good for a marriage. I have a hard time expecting a healthy sexual relationship with someone I've never had sex with before. There's a certain amount of trial and error and effort that makes that happen.