I was deeply saddened a few weeks ago when I ran a Google search on an old friend that was the best man at my first wedding 20 years ago. We had a falling out about 10 years ago & lost touch. It all boiled down to both of us being drunken & obnoxious asses.
When I ran the search I expected to see where he had accomplished great things because he was already a fairly successful custom home builder, a locally accomplished musician, & an extremely motivated person. Instead I found this.
http://www.grungelive.com/brian.htm