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I have discovered that couples therapy works best on your next relationship.

The issues you didn't know you had you'll work on before your next relationship.

The money spent on therapy is usually 'well' spent. The amount of the word 'well' depends on how good your insurance is.

Usually, the third meeting is where the 'doctor' will pull you aside and say "that you are really pretty normal, but that he could write a book on your other half. So hang in there, and I promise to change the names so the guys at the club won't recognize you when I get published."

First meeting is both of you, very pleasant exploration. Then a meeting with only each of you alone. That's where she will 'unload'. That's where you ask "Ok, what now?"

Your Mileage May Vary.