[juanbenae]

past misdeeds by you or another will scar a woman forever. i had the same thing at one time and no matter what you do it can be impossible to change.

i have been a cheatin dog a time or two and my mistrust in her (my chick at the time) grew the more i F'ed around. it was no fault of hers, but my lack of faithfulness lead to me mistrusting her. does that make sense, im wondering? it was like "if i could do it, so could she".

or as a last resort you could go scott peterson if thing dont get better after the wedding.....

best of luck though, whatever you decide