[Hugh R]

If she has trust problems now, it won't get better after marriage. If you can't work it out before you get married, draw up a pre-nup, or better yet don't do the deed. My wife still 20 years later thinks I was screwing around on a trip when I didn't answer the hotel room phone all night. Truth was, I was in the bar till 3AM and too hammered to hear the phone after that. A few months ago she went to Palm Springs with her college girl friends for the weekend, and she/I called Friday and Saturday night. Sunday morning she woke me up early (6AM) and said that I must have been doing something because I told her I was at my exbrother in laws friday and saturday night eating pizza. She said I never eat the same thing two nights in a row. I said to her "so your concluding that I cheated on you because I ate pizza two nights in a row?" Women will never get out the mistrust thing. You've been warned.