[MichiganMat]

Did she buy the car?
You could start by making her accountable for each bit of damage to the vehicle if its yours.
Instead of trying to force her to drive well via punishment, instruction, and shame, why not have her pay for parts of the car that are damaged. Sounds to me like she's not much interested in the consequences of her driving mistakes. I would start by introducing her to the cost of those tail-lights. Or get her on a payment plan to purchase the car from you.

If its her car though (ie she bought it) you may have to just take away the keys, if nothing else in order to protect her from herself.