[StevoRocket]

Your photo of your daughter says it all.
16 years old, pierced lip.
Mini skirt.
Black stockings.
All says - teenage vs grownup protest.
In a kitchen which is impossibly neat, tidy and clean. As you are.
The contrast couldn't be starker. Think about it relative to the cars condition.
My son is 19 and at university.
I taught him to drive.
He has his own insurance, a small euro Peugeot 306 hatchback with a 1400cc engine and airbags - with a great crash test reputation.
I am still scared ****less that he will end up crashed into a tree with three friends on a Saturday night on the way to or from a party.
He is over the protest and dont care stage. It shows in his work and general attitude.
Take the car off her and drive her yourself.
Make those drives part of staying in touch with her life and friends. Make them fun if you can.