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Originally posted by SteveStromberg
First thing would be to take control and make her dress like a lady not a tramp. I would pull that piercing out with vice grips. Really you need to crack down Hard really Hard. Totally ground her. I see big trouble if you dont. 16.5 and Knocked up by some Grunge Rock little wimp ass punk.
I would sit her down and make her read this thread
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Steve, I have to disagree with you. My parents were super strict with me & I totally rebelled. They made me keep my hair short back in the seventies which alienated me from most of my peers except for the stoner kids that were the only ones that would accept me the way I was. It was a mistake that cost them thousands of dollars in restitution, attorney fees, & group home board.
My daughter looks like all her friends which is more modest IMHO than the Abercrombie & Fitch crowd who wear next to nothing. She attends the Tacoma School of the Arts which is a colorful bunch of kids.
I've been with a couple of women that were raised in strict religious environments & as soon as the turned 18 they went off the deep end because they had been sheltered from the real world.
I have had many long talks with my daughter about the facts of life & we decided a couple of years ago to get her on the pill to help her with her acne problem. I don't know if she engages in sexual activities, but I do not allow it in my home. Are you suggesting that girls who dress out of style don't get pregnant?
So would you have me make my daughter dress like a grandma & pull my piercing out with Vise Grips as well as hers? It's easy to pass judgments across a keyboard, you sound like an old fuddy- duddy.
