[Joeaksa]

Lube,

The ladies in Europe do not have the "guilt trip" hanging over their head that the American ladies do... they were brought up differently and do as they please.

This is not to say that they are sleeping with anyone and everyone but if they see a gent they enjoy they have no stigma about spending a night or weekend with him after getting to know each other.

American ladies are all worried about "should I have slept with him" when the European ladies are more concerned with the important parts like "is he a nice guy, do I like him and should I see him again" which usually leads to a longer and healthier relationship.

Regarding the "kitty"... when living over there it was not unusual for the girl to want to get "friendly" and the guy not be ready just yet. Led to a interesting situation of role reversal because the European guys tend to think with their upper head a lot more than American men seem to do at times...

Guess I am old fashioned in that I want to know and like a lady personally before anything sexual. Finding sex for me is not that difficult if I really was dying for it... but finding someone to make love with is not so easy. There is a big difference...

JoeA