Red, I think you see dozens of people doing the same thing because of the inciteful nature of his (her) posts. I started the NZ/sissies thread only as an example of how easy it is to post nonsensical, hurtful dialog. I went to NZ once, for 2 days a few years ago. Beautiful country, nice people. Don't remember the names of all the places, though
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Many people have been guilty of an inflammatory remark here and there, (right?
) but in general, people tend to be mostly civil and not personal.