[vash]

super, ok i will play.

on a more superficial level, i think it can even be broken down easier. your young relative is actually incorrect. if she trotted down to the grocery store and it was full of ugly guys, she would come back empty handed. i think the best thing to be would be to a drop dead handsome intellegent male. if your gay, it would be a slam dunk. straight, nothing but net. the only difference between a woman and a man is that we are a bit obsessed with getting another person to play with our peckers. we will even tolerate a less attractive partner. a woman isnt so focused on getting laid, that is the pressure difference.

you mix in a bit of LOVE, and that is when things get complicated.

just to add something. you know in a male/female relationship, (typically) it is the man always trying to get the action. in a male/male union, they are both men, with that attitude. let's just say, there is alot of action goin on. i sat in on a gay card game one night, the coversation was definately "different". personally, i cant figure it out.