[M.D. Holloway]

If momma ain't happy, ain't nobody happy.

One big issue that has been a problem for many guys I know is that their wives or girl friends don't feel they can "talk" to them. The thing is, when she wants to talk, she really just wants you to hear her out - God forbid you try to solve the problem! Try turning off the TV, looking at her in the eyes give a few sympathetic "ah huhs" and let it run it's course.

When was the last time a woman started a conversation with "honey, I have a problem and I want you to help me solve it". I would really like to know that one - please give examples.

Men are problem solvers and very linear in our thinking. Woman are wired in a web of neural networks. Talk about independent and dependent variables influencing an outcome!

Bottom line, it takes two (or more) to have a fight - her just beefin with out any back talk from us is psychosis. Been my experience that she does it becuase she can and knows it has little influence on how I feel about her. Such freedom she has...