[84porsche]

Well since my college days were only a few years ago I would say don't listen to family and go with your heart. The other thing to consider is going away to school and get involved in different clubs/activities early (networking). I worked through college until the last year when I started getting involved and I meet a few good friends but I think that if I would have started earlier my life would be a little different. I have learned one thing and that is that it is never too late to change your life.