I know the feeling - our son will be 1 on the 29th, and our daughter is just over 4. Just to keep you going, she was able to open the fridge, get a beer, and bring it to me without dropping or shaking too much just after she turned 3. I figure another year or two before she'll be strong enough to help me change the #3 sparkplug or starter on my 356, but I'm patient