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When people tell me they think it is Genetic...they are telling me they can't do anything about it, they are helpless victims. So they should jsut accept the inevitable...

I'm saying no you can change...it's just a matter of how dedicated you are to wanting to change...it's basically like the ant that is trying to move the boulder....eventually the ant gets the boulder to it's destination...like I said it's not easy but doable...