[cmccuist]

Gambler, it sounds like you were able to use logic to come up with a system. Doesn't work with every relationship. I'm on a 4-10 schedule, so I get every Friday off. I have to basically list all my accomplishments for the day or there will be trouble.

Never mind that I already worked my 40. Oh, and sitting through a Tivo'd Simpsons marathon does not count as an accoplishment.

I would never give my wife a to do list or hound her about what she did during the day. That seems like dissing to me.

There does seem to be some common ground here in that women either want their mates to pitch in simultaneously, or at least acknowledge that they have the moral high ground.