Spanky let's Kota boss him around too about 90 % of the time. But he will always try to dominate another male. I think it's funny when she bugs and pokes at him because it is pay back for all the grief he gave my Bailey (sharpei that passed away last summer). I say sorry Spanks...you are on your own...if you don't want her bugging you...then let her know...
. He'll usually just go hide in one of his dog houses if he doesn't want to play.