[vash]

what is the best for your kid? i am child-less, but historically, i put up with way too much crap from my overbearing mother who always hid behind that shield that says."I ONLY WANT THE BEST FOR YOU!" now i need therapy, and am always seeking approval from everyone. you only know what is best for you, usually but not always. me? if/when i have kids, i want them to be well adjusted and can make decisions and stand up for themselves. there are some major critical areas too look for, drugs, smoking, alcohol, stupid unprotected sex...you know, the basics. other than that, dont get to nitpicky. phew i feel better.