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I agree with you that they signed up for it; part of the job.
I don't think it's Army policy or that it should be, and would guess that one of/both of them may be in a specialized field where there are fewer soldiers to do that particular job.
I believe the military branches generally discourage marraige to fellow soldiers just because of this type of situation. I actually know 2 couples who are in the Coast Guard here locally, in both cases one spouse gets a land-based job while the other is deployed several months at a time aboard a ship; so they will work with you.
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